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let it out. go to the mountain top. or corner a friend and make him/her sit with you for a talk. (be very choosy with whom you're going to talk though. he/she must be someone worthy because you will be bound by the secrets that you share). or send a post to postsecret website (anonymously of course). the author of this website compiled some posts that he received from people all over the world and made a book out from these entitled "A Lifetime of Secrets". An article about him and his project was published in the New York Times recently with the following lines:

On a boarding pass, I read a secret of love lost, “I would have left home and flown 2430 miles with you if only you had asked.”

If I won't be feeling stingy for a day, I'll grab a copy of that book. hahah!